Why I am off Facebook

I am depressed and dismayed by the amount of venom and hostility which abounds on Facebook, of how any debate is fast reduced to boo! and hurrah! words, how I am besieged by requests to pray for sick children or hunt for lost cats, how I am flooded with stories of pain and destruction or evidence of how the Bad Guys are screwing us over, and endless stories about Jeremy Corbyn, what he said or did or didn’t do or should have done, what the Sun said and what Angelina Jolie said about the Sun: satirical items on the above. Cartoons. Debates on whether satirical items or cartoons are the way to go: and, post-Paris, people changing their profile pictures to the tricolor and others saying they won’t change theirs because it’s not the way to go and the whole crazy spin-off about Islam and hatred of Islam and hatred of Islamophobia and on and on until you can’t hear yourself think.
Nevertheless:
I have kept going because of these:
Encouragement in times of loneliness. A touch from a friend. A smile. A joke. A shared experience. A conversation. The pleasure of helping someone.
But these are drowned out, overwhelmed by the rest as the traffic drowns out a sidewalk conversation.  And what is the effect on my life?
I find myself logging on to Facebook five or six times a day.  Maybe more: I haven’t checked. I become obsessed with whether people have commented on my posts or replied to my messages.  I get sucked into debates and click on things I don’t need to see.  And above all a particular world-view emerges, depressing, fearful, mistrustful, dismaying.
So I’m off now. I don’t know how long I’ll be gone – as long as I need to.   So if you want to comment make sure you do it on here and not on Facebook, otherwise I won’t see what you’ve written.
I’m going out now.  I may be some time…
Kirk out

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5 responses to “Why I am off Facebook

  1. smishcrummy

    You are not the only one. I haven’t left fb, but I have stopped reading most of it, it’s just too depressing. Desperate people asking for money and I can’t help them all. Endless stories of murder and destruction. Petty squabbles. No end in sight, no hope for change, there only seems to be conflict upon conflict.

  2. I’m surprised you’ve hung on so long! Do you promise to let us know directly you cave in, even if it’s only once?

    Spock out

  3. Graham Price

    This is how a lot of people feel about it, including me. Some of my friends have commented on the amount of bigotry they’ve encountered on there, in the wake of what happened last week. Can’t say I’ve encountered any – but that may be because I don’t have many (or, any) ‘right-wing’ friends on there. I deactivated my account for about a week, then had to reactivate when I heard someone was trying to get in touch with me and only had fb as a route to do that.

    A television programme recently did a feature on how depressed fb makes people feel most of the time – and how comparatively happier people felt when they deactivated their accounts.

  4. Andy Biggins

    Understand and sympathise. My job restricts how much I am on facebook, and leaving the laptop in a separate room to where we eat and watch TV. As with newspapers and magazines, you have to learn what you ignore and what is worthwhile.

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